The term, “transgender” is an umbrella term used to refer to individuals who dress and/or live in a gender different from the one they are supposed to adopt. This applies to both men and women. Plus, anyone who crosses the line of what is socially acceptable appearance and self-expression may be included in the definition of “transgender.”

There are many different terminologies that apply to the different members of transgender community. Some of them you probably are familiar with are: transsexuals, drag kings, drag queens, androgynous, male to female, female to male, pre-op (erative), post-op (erative) and intersexed. There are many other terms out there and if you are not familiar with them, the best way to find out is to ask politely what they mean from the person you heard it from.

It is also very important to understand that someone may identify as the opposite gender, but not necessarily express him or her physically in the gender they chose to identify with. Some trans folks have difficulties expressing their desired gender identities physically due to factors that they may have no control over ( e.g. family issues, body not conforming to opposite body features).

Some members of the TG community – like transsexuals – in the course of their transition, may have some medical procedures done that will enhance their physical appearance and achieve their desired gender. Examples are facial cosmetic surgery, cheekbone implants, breast implants, breast reduction and sexual reassignment surgery.

Many members of the TG community experience difficult times in their daily lives. They are often discriminated in many basic services like medical needs and services, employment, housing, education and public services. People who are not exposed and educated about the TG community tend to stereotype TG folks to be either public nuisance or attention seekers. That is why it is important to empower yourself and others about the transgender community.

In 1994, San Francisco included “ gender identity” as a protected class to its non-discrimination ordinances in response to a 1984 public hearing held by the Human Rights Commission. Therefore, the San Francisco Administrative Codes and Police Codes were amended to prohibit discrimination based on gender identity. Although such great law is in effect, the Human Rights Commission has continued to receive complaints from people who are not hired, not promoted, are fired, denied housing and services and denied access to facilities.

How can you be sensitive and understanding towards your trans brothers and sisters? Like everybody, treat them with respect. They are no different from anyone else. Be mindful in using the right pronouns in addressing someone who is transgender. Don’t be judgemental. A transgender’s life isn’t a walk in the park. Try to learn more about the transgender community. Be a friend to one, an advocate for them and educate others that we are as normal as anyone else on this earth.